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Trusted Contacts Workflow

The Trusted Contacts workflow prevents life insurance benefits from going unclaimed by establishing reliable points of contact when beneficiaries cannot be reached. This system protects both clients and their families while maintaining strict privacy boundaries.

Every year, millions of dollars in life insurance benefits go unclaimed because:

  • Beneficiary information becomes outdated
  • Beneficiaries cannot be reached
  • Families don’t know a policy exists
  • Advisors have nobody to contact when communication fails
  • US$13+ billion in lost or unclaimed life insurance and annuity benefits have been reconnected to families through the NAIC Policy Locator since 2016

  • 886,000+ policy searches submitted; 460,952 resulted in matches

  • Only 39% of baby boomer beneficiaries feel prepared to act

  • Only 30% of Millennials and 22% of Gen Z feel prepared

Many beneficiaries do not know a policy exists, the insurer’s name, or how to claim it. Source: NAIC Consumer Insight

Every client provides five Trusted Contacts (not beneficiaries) who can help us locate family members if something happens and beneficiaries cannot be reached.

  • Trusted Contacts do NOT receive financial information
  • They do NOT gain account access
  • They are simply reliable people who can help ensure the benefit gets to the right place

This workflow dramatically reduces the risk of unclaimed benefits.

The Trusted Contacts process follows these key steps:

  1. Explain the Risk of Unclaimed Benefits
  2. Introduce the Trusted Contacts Concept
  3. Request Five Trusted Contacts
  4. Clarify Boundaries and Privacy
  5. Client Sends Intro Email
  6. Advisor Sends Professional Intro + One-Pager
  7. Follow Up With a Quick Phone Call

Many life insurance payouts are lost because beneficiaries become outdated, unreachable, or unaware of the policy. The Trusted Contacts system prevents this.

Explain that Trusted Contacts act as a safety measure — a way for us to ensure someone can be reached if beneficiaries cannot.

  • They receive no financial information
  • They have no responsibilities
  • They simply help locate the right person if needed

Ask the client for five people who are:

  • Reliable
  • Reachable
  • Stable long-term relationships
  • Not beneficiaries
  • Able to help confirm contact info only

Reassure the client:

  • Trusted Contacts do not receive financial info
  • They do not gain account access
  • Their role is simply to help locate the right person if needed

5. Have the Client Send a Short Intro Email

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This ensures you are not a stranger calling them in an emergency. The introduction is simple, non-intrusive, and client-controlled.

6. Send Your Professional Intro Email With One-Pager

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After the client introduces you, reply professionally and attach the “Trusted Contact One-Pager” which:

  • Explains your role
  • Explains the Trusted Contact role
  • Provides your contact info
  • Sets boundaries
  • Builds trust

Make a short, friendly call:

“Thank you for agreeing to be a Trusted Contact.”

  • Confirm their phone/email
  • Reinforce they have no responsibilities
  • Let them know you’re simply a point of contact if beneficiaries cannot be reached

Use this when explaining Trusted Contacts to clients:

“One of the biggest reasons life insurance doesn’t get paid out is because beneficiaries can’t be contacted — numbers change, people move, or family situations change.

To protect you and your family, we create a list of five Trusted Contacts. These are people outside your beneficiary list who we’re allowed to call only if we cannot reach your beneficiary.

They’re not involved in your finances — they’re just people you trust who can help us make sure your benefit gets to the right place.

We also make a light introduction so they know who I am. That way, if I ever need to reach out, I’m not a stranger calling out of the blue.”

Trusted Contacts should be:

  • Easy to reach
  • Stable, long-term relationships
  • Calm in emergencies
  • Trusted by the client
  • Likely to answer their phone

Examples:

  • Close friends
  • Siblings
  • Adult children
  • Long-term colleagues
  • Community members (church, sports, etc.)

🔹 How to Ask for Trusted Contacts (Non-Invasive Method)

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✔ Key Principle Don’t ask for “names and numbers.” Ask for help protecting the family.

Advisor Script:

“Who are five people in your life that you trust — people who, if I couldn’t reach your beneficiary, I’d be allowed to call just to help track down the right person?”

“They don’t get access to anything — they just help ensure nothing gets lost.”

This framing is:

  • Protective
  • Professional
  • Non-intrusive
  • Comfortable

Copy/Paste Template

Subject: Quick Introduction – My Advisor

Hi [Name],

I wanted to quickly introduce you to [Advisor Name], my licensed financial advisor. I’ve listed you as one of my Trusted Contacts — someone the advisor can reach out to only if something ever happens and they can’t reach my beneficiary.

This doesn’t give you any responsibility or access to my accounts — it simply helps ensure my family can be notified properly.

I’ve cc’d [Advisor Name] here so you can put a face to the name.

Thank you!

— [Client Name]

Copy/Paste Template — With One-Pager Attachment

Subject: Nice to Meet You — I’m [Client Name]‘s Advisor

Hi [Name],

Thanks for the introduction. I’m [Advisor Name], and I work with [Client Name] on their financial planning.

You’ve been listed as a Trusted Contact, meaning:

  • You are not responsible for anything
  • You do not get access to their accounts or information
  • You are simply someone we may contact if we cannot reach the beneficiary

Attached is a simple one-page sheet with my contact info and a summary of how the Trusted Contact process works.

If you ever need anything, feel free to reach out.

Best regards, [Advisor Name] [Phone] [Email] [Company]

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Trusted Contact Information — Overview

Why You’re Receiving This You were listed as a Trusted Contact for [Client Name] — someone we may reach out to only if beneficiaries cannot be reached.

Your Role

  • Confirm or update contact info if needed
  • Help ensure the family can be notified
  • You are not responsible for any decisions
  • You do not receive any financial details

Advisor Contact Information

  • Name
  • Title
  • Phone
  • Email
  • Office Address
  • Website / Booking Link

How the Process Works

  1. Advisor attempts to reach the client
  2. Advisor attempts to reach the beneficiary
  3. Advisor contacts the Trusted Contact if information is outdated or unreachable
  4. Advisor notifies appropriate next-of-kin so benefits can be claimed

Why This Matters Life insurance benefits often go unclaimed due to:

  • Outdated beneficiary info
  • Unreachable contact details
  • Beneficiaries unaware of the policy
  • Missing communication pathways

Trusted Contacts help prevent this loss.

🔹 Advisor Workflow Summary (Internal Training)

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Step-by-Step Flow

  1. Explain the unclaimed policy problem
  2. Introduce the Trusted Contact concept
  3. Ask for 5 names
  4. Have client send intro email
  5. Advisor replies with intro + one-pager
  6. Add contacts to CRM under “Trusted Contacts”
  7. Follow up with a friendly confirmation phone call
  8. Review contacts every 2–3 years

Compliance & Boundaries

  • No financial disclosures to Trusted Contacts
  • No sales conversations
  • Only contact if beneficiary is unreachable
  • Keep communication informational and respectful
  • Keep tone protective, not salesy
  • Normalize the Trusted Contacts process
  • Use stats ($13B+ unclaimed) for impact
  • Reinforce this is a safety measure, not a sales tool
  • Keep the introduction simple and comfortable
  • Your professionalism sets the tone